Tuesday, February 16, 2010

This Chinese New Year...

..will probably go down as one we'll remember. There's the CNY celebrations. CNY fell on a Sunday. So that meant we were able to meet up old friends at church service. Then there was Valentine's Day which is kinda subdued for me... guess my time with this particular celebration is over and this.... And the final event, Other Half's grandma (my kids' great grandma) passed away a couple of hours ago. We've just finished with the arrangements. Funeral is in a day's time.

She turned 104 this lunar year. Always a God fearing woman, even her passing on was blessed. She went peacefully with her family members around. Even her younger son came in the afternoon, his trip unplanned. And because he came back, a few relatives came for a visit too.

So, in a way, we'll be celebrating her life in tomorrow's funeral. She was quite a remarkable woman. Brought up in an orphanage in China, widowed at the age of 29 in Malaya by Japanese brutality, she single-handedly brought up her 4 kids. She remained generous to the people around her, driven by her faith and hope in God. Her generosity despite of her own hard life is one of those things remarkable about her. She was still preaching into her late 70s and early 80s. We celebrated her 100th birthday with a big bash in 2006. Many of her former students came and shared about her goodness to them. And they came from everywhere..... a testimony of her life.

And in the last 9 years, God was good to her. After a fall, Nam came into our lives. She has been good to Ah Ma... loving her despite her failed memory and in the last few years, faithfully getting her to exercise and caring for her basic needs. It touches me so to see her breaking down into tears when she realised that Ah Ma would leave us when the signs started appearing earlier in the evening. God has been very good to us through Nam. We always hear of problems with maids... she was a blessing to us!

Ah Ma is in heaven now, with God's chosen. She has run the good race and fought the good fight and now heaven beckons....

6 comments:

Dino said...

:( Sorry to hear about that.

Thomas C B Chua said...

Our deepest condolences. She had lived an inspirational life for all of us to emulate. May she rest in eternal peace.

PreciousPearl said...

our condolences to you, David & family

paulee said...

Sincere condolences to you and your family.

Sia Mooi said...

i remember her very well. As a little kid, my dad used to take me to David's hse n i would just sit and listen to her talking to my dad. She was gentle and her voice very comforting. There was so much peace and love oozing from her.

There was one incident when my dad insisted she visit his church. And she was very sporting. She went; sitting at the back of the bicycle in her cheongsam. I sat in front; over the palang.

God has blessed her and blessed her children and children's children and all the rest of the generation will be blessed too because of her godliness.

All things beautiful said...

So sorry to hear the sad news. Our deepest condolences to you all.

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